Emotional regulation
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"Emotional self-regulation is the ability to modify or control your thoughts, emotions, actions, and words, ... Self-regulating your...
- Aug 21
- 2 min
Other ways we get motivated to do things we might not want to do.
What works best for you? Here are some suggestions. *Working to deadlines? *Trying to prove a point to yourself? *Trying to prove a point...
- Aug 20
- 2 min
Waiting for motivation to exercise/ train your dog.
We tend to think of motivation as the feeling that we WANT to do something and will ENJOY doing it. Motivation isn't that simple. Every...
- Aug 10
- 1 min
Sensitivity - strength or weakness?
Teaching any person or animal well can be difficult. Learning can also be difficult.
- Aug 2
- 1 min
If something sounds too good to be true, it probably is.
There can be no timeline on behaviour change, because it's a process, not a product and everyone is different.
- Aug 1
- 2 min
“We see what we believe, not the other way around.” – Seth
I want to be a 'good dog owner' , so I do things that I think 'good dog owners' would do. I'm not perfect and not trying to be. I don't...
- Aug 1
- 1 min
"Do or do not. There is no try." Yoda
I have always loved to be active in the outdoors. Actually for the sake of my mental health, I NEED to be active in the outdoors. Dog...
- Apr 15
- 2 min
Understand the conversation you're in.
This morning I watched this interview. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QQNfRXhrb6M (I found it so interesting that I'm gonna have to...
- Apr 15
- 3 min
Understand the learning process.
Most people who get a dog know the basics of teaching some skills. Pretty much the first thing people teach a puppy is 'sit' (product),...
- Apr 13
- 2 min
Become a better dog trainer/human coach.
If we all work to become better coaches and use those skills widely, the world will be a better place. Here's an overview. Coaching...
- Mar 20
- 2 min
Defining fun
As you know, I train and compete in agility. Newbies and people who are struggling are often told to get out there and ‘have fun’. I can...
- Mar 3
- 1 min
Disobedience
"Disobedience happens when the dog is undertrained or undermotivated to comply." Anon Undertraining is your responsibility, but not your...
- Feb 17
- 1 min
Moods colour our world
Emotions, like the weather, come and go. Moods hang around for longer. Just as a climate shapes the sort of weather that is likely, moods...
- Feb 1
- 1 min
Do you want to be a good dog owner?
"The Recipe for Sustained Success ... 1. Decide the type of person you want to be. 2. Prove it to yourself with small wins. First, decide...
- Feb 1
- 2 min
Words matter
Why? Because if we know exactly what's going on, it's easier to take action to change it. How do people use language with dogs? My dog is...
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